Unlike Man-on-Top position, Woman-on-Top position can involve variety of actions to suit pleasures of both.

Some men appreciate this variation from routine and assertive participation of wife, while some feel anxious about her dominance.

In Woman-on-Top Position for intercourse, woman lies over him and between his legs to reverses the actions of Man-on-Top position.

Woman may also position herself sitting over his lying body, face to face with her legs folded at knee on either side of him. Alternatively in the same way she can sit over him with her back towards him.

She can also sit on his lap with legs spread out while he is in the sitting position.

Man becomes almost passive partner in this position because the male body requires lot of adaptation for sexual movements.

The man can only thrust his pelvis upwards as much possible, leaving the depth of insertion and movements over the penis under her control.

In Woman-on-Top Position man has lesser active role and pressure of performance. Hence, some therapists recommend this position for men who face premature ejaculation.

By being on top and over his body and by supporting her body weight on arms, she can stimulate the pleasure that man enjoys over her body.

To sustain this position she has to be strong and flexible as she bends backwards and moves over his body with thrusting pressure.

Manoeuvring the intercourse

When she feels exhausted by lifting and moving her body over him; she can lie over his body by keeping the penis inside her vagina.

She can feel his penis inside her vagina by squeezing it with her genital muscles. By bringing her legs closer she can increase the grip over the penis and press her clitoral area further against his body.

Woman can now make slower movements to feel the penis against different surfaces of vaginal wall and identify the most pleasurable spot.

Her pelvic muscles work at their best now, to give her sexual fulfilment.

Unlike ‘to and fro’ or ‘up and down’ stroking movements, there is little chance in this method that his penis will slip out.

Man in this position has to keep himself aroused and make few pelvic pushes to maintain the erection and affirm his involvement.

After the climax, she can relax over his chest and remain motionless till both absorb the pleasure.

Some women enjoy this position mainly to see their man helplessly pinned down under them, while most women like it for its pleasure part and as a sporting variation.

Woman sitting face to face on lying person is good way for a man to experience what she feels while bearing his entire weight and the thrusting pressures. He would also understand, how one feels to lie down naked on the back with legs spread out and pinned down in a helpless position and is still expected to enjoy sex.

In this sitting position over him, he gets thrill of watching the open front side of woman he loves, at the time, when she is at her peak of enjoyment over his body.

The shape of her unsupported breasts invites him to touch and fondle. He can kiss her breasts or gently suck her nipples. He can also feel her buttocks which easily fit in his palms.

He has to just lie back, allow his body to be vulnerable and enjoy freedom from the pressure of performance by accommodating her body above him or between his legs.

The pleasurable feeling of being gripped by vagina is quite different from pleasure that he gets from active thrusting in man-on-top position and is worth trying.

While woman is in lying position over the man, view of her breasts compressed against his chest is quite arousing for most men. And, his hands can move over her back up to the buttocks and sides of her breasts to feel the pleasure.

In sitting position with back towards him, fun is least for the man; whereas in face to face sitting position while he is sitting the pleasure is most for both.

Woman-on-Top Position is mostly preferred by assertive women who feel more comfortable in being empowered to control the sexual intercourse.

She can sit over him face to face with legs on either side while he is lying down; and clasp his penis with her vaginal muscles. She can move up and down to enjoy the thrusts of his penis or just move her pelvic parts to feel the penis on the walls of her vagina.

Most women get great pleasure when penis comes in contact with or thrust against the most sensitive area of their vaginal wall. She can find this right spot, which is usually on the front wall of the vagina, by changing the angle of the penis with her body movements.

In this position woman has chosen to be in charge, hence she has to be energetic as well as proactive in movements. She has to take initiative in talking, whispering, kissing, caressing, and attracting him with stimulating movements while observing and retaining his excitement.

Even a slightly different positioning of penis inside vagina could mean difference between pleasure and thrill.

Some women find this spot by inserting their finger inside vagina while exploring their sexuality during self pleasuring or masturbation.

With access to her own clitoris, a woman can get fully involved with her own sexuality as well as that of her husband.

She can either allow him to hold or fondle her breasts; or hold both his hands away and give him visual pleasure of her wobbling breasts.

She can tease him by holding her own breasts in a sensual way and moving away from him. This would leave him excited with options to touch her thighs and buttocks while enjoying her body movements.

This position involves lot of physical activity and demands fitness of the woman. There is also fear of getting cramps in legs or thigh region.

Even though this position is a bit strenuous, many women enjoy for the variety of feeling it gives.

This position has sensation of monitoring the excitement of husband from above and also has freedom of moving her body at will.

She can either aggressively thrust her body or passively receive his upward push inside her.

She can touch and stimulate her own clitoris quite easily while he is getting pleasure of moving his hand over her breasts or just holding them.

Woman may need lot of pauses in this position, either when she is tired or when she wants to delay the climax by kissing and caressing him.

If woman is sitting too upright over him, she is likely to feel the penis too long and almost touching her cervix. She can however position herself accordingly and control the angle of insertion.

Man can also contribute to her enjoyment when he gets opportunity to thrust his penis.

She can get the thrill of being in charge of the sexual act and total control over the depth of insertion, speed, as well as rhythm of the intercourse.

In the sexual position where Woman is sitting over a lying man with back towards his face, he is making his body available and accessible for her to enjoy.

Woman can take her thrill and pleasure while he can enjoy her manoeuvring and learn what angle of insertion pleases her most.

In this position, man has the sensation that her vagina is holding his penis, rather than he pushing it inside her vagina.

There is total change in visual outlook where man has full vision of her back and gets the pleasure of wife enjoying the sex.

For loving couples who like to face each other, may find this position mere mechanical activity away from visual and mental contact.

Apart from attempting it as variation, this position has more disadvantages than benefits.

In Woman-on-Top sexual position, sitting face to face on his lap with legs apart while he is in sitting position is the most comfortable variation for both man and woman

He may be sitting on edge of the bed, sofa or on the chair.

There is least strain for woman and more allowance for movement over his body.

With faces close to each other both can enjoy kissing, smelling and rubbing of breasts. She can caress his head or move it over her breast or cover his head with her hair to keep his stimulation very high.

These playful stimulations may divert his mind from intercourse without losing the erection and give her longer time for climax.

He can touch, fondle her breasts and hold her head or move his hand through her hair.

With least physical exposure of body in this position, she feels least vulnerable about how her body looks.

Having lesser pressure over his body, he can virtually lift her body up and down with his pelvic movements. Alternating these movements with her up and down movement allows equal participation of both in this sexual act.

With more comfortably placed on his lap she will be able to get as much pressure on her clitoris as she wants and when she wants to reach the climax in time.

This position is great fun when both are comfortable and in play-type mood, and also suits couples who wish to enjoy a quickie with minimum undressing.

Loss of Erection or Penis Slipping off

Some men are likely to lose their erections in this position.

In such situation, woman should continue to sit there and move his semi-erect penis over her clitoris or over the vaginal border and help him in getting back the arousal.

Lovingly holding and stimulating his penis will help him in regaining the erection.

She may fondle his testicles delicately or rub her vagina over him to add the stimulation.

Penis may also slip out in Woman-on-Top Position when she is moving fast. In such situation, she can adjust herself to move penis back in her vagina without losing the rhythm or tempo.

Premature Ejaculation

In Woman-on-Top Position man has lesser active role or pressure of performance. Hence some therapists recommend this position for men who face premature ejaculation.

However, in newly wedded person, early ejaculation may still occur because he is too excited to hold the ejaculation.

In Newlywed Couple,

In marriage where both are new to sexuality, couples may find it uncomfortable to try out this position. This may also happen when wife is shy, totally ignorant or prefers to keep low profile till she is comfortable with him.

Woman may also not enjoy this position or find it difficult to take charge of the intercourse, if she has not explored her sexuality by self pleasuring before marriage.

Barrier of Body Look

Advantages of this position come to an end if her drooping breasts or stomach are coming in way of his arousal.

Women generally avoid giving total exposure of their naked body even in married life, unless they are comfortable and relaxed on some occasion

Strenuous

By and large this sexual position is most strenuous for woman and may not be  satisfactory for all men.

General Physique and Attitude

Considering the general differences of height, weight, and social behaviour between the couple, men are more comfortable in man-on-top position.

Considering these disadvantages the face to face position with woman sitting over man while he is in sitting position may be preferred by some.

Hurting

Lot of vigorous movements by woman may make her vaginal region sore, making intercourse difficult or painful for few days later.

In this position man may cause her discomfort by exerting pressure on her anal area while he is pulling the buttocks towards him.

Care should also be taken not to touch this sensitive area around the anus unless she is comfortable with it.

Diversion of mind for man

When woman takes charge of controlling intercourse, all the actions are as per her wish. Man who is normally action oriented in performing sex, suddenly finds himself without any task.

There is likelihood that this may lead to loss of erection, unless he learns quickly to focus on her moving body, enjoys the pleasures experienced by the partner and takes up newer tasks of arousing her further by fondling her body parts which she enjoys most.

Man can get control in this situation by gripping her buttocks with his free hands and moving her up and down on his penis.  He can even squeeze her buttocks or dig his fingers into the skin.

The man's hands are also free to stimulate her breasts and the clitoris and can continue to stimulate her during the act.

Some sporting women like to be slapped on their buttocks while good number dislike it, probably because they connect such behaviour with those who abuse them in crowd.

Purpose of this position is to ensure orgasm for woman. Hence, she should make sure that he ejaculates at the right time. With experience, Couple learn the right timings to reach the climax simultaneously.

When there is a fear of quicker ejaculation she may delay it by working on it. She can spend initial time on stimulating her clitoris by touching or rubbing it against his body until she is ready before inserting his penis into her vagina.

Sexual communication between the couple helps in better understanding of partner’s sexual behaviour and to adjust accordingly.