In a married couple’s life, sexual love making continues to be important even after having children.
Retaining sexual intimacy in spite of a busy schedule of career or family management helps in developing a loving bond between the couple for long-term married relationship.
About 50 to 70 percent of problems in married life arise from sexual dissatisfaction.
On the other hand happily married couples feel that only 15 to 20 per cent of their happiness comes from sexual life.
That means, sexual problems dominate most disturbed marital relationships. But, if the sex life is okay, it is taken for granted as part of a satisfactory relationship.
For Example, if you are hungry, you think of nothing but food. And, if you have eaten plenty, you may think about it only 20 percent of your time.
Similarly persons with higher sexual desire are looked upon as “Sex Crazy” or “Sex addict”, but in reality they are sex starved.
Frequent sex is their basic, biological need which they look forward to.
Most men who feel “Sex Starved” are not interested in having ‘just’ sex; it is their way of expressing love and bond.
Giving sex without taking pleasure out of it, is most frustrating and damaging to married relationship.
Mostly each partner likes to be loved as much as they love their partner.
And there is nothing wrong in wanting to have sex and making love to your partner when invited.