Most pornographic material on internet includes videos of rear-entry vaginal as well as anal sex. There is lot of emphasis even on Oral sex.

These videos show practically all possible sexual positions and in all these videos woman is shown to demand as well as enjoy every sexual act.

Pornography is multi-billion dollar business designed to attract men by teasing their animal instinct and make them addicted to see the woman in ecstasy in every sexual position or act.

In pornographic videos, Women are shown more as an object for sex.

This is because; these videos are designed for men to watch them and get visual stimulation for arousal while they are masturbating.

Hence, in most videos, woman is shown as most eager, easily accessible, always hot, well lubricated and always demanding sex. She is also shown to be willing and enjoy any sexual act easily without any pain or reservations.

Surprisingly she is shown not to require any foreplay for getting aroused, which develops misconception in men that if woman wants she can be “ready” for sex anytime. This is in contrast with reality which most men realise only during their married life.

These porno actors are specially trained and mostly mechanically lubricated to do these acts in front of a camera and in presence of the entire production unit and and paid only to please the viewers with their teasing erotic acts.

In real life, the same models may be just like any other home loving woman.

Women rarely or never watch them except for curiosity of knowing what men are watching. This is because women get stimulation by feeling. She can get aroused by fantasying while simultaneously touching her genitals.

For her, even a photograph, or just thinking about the man she loves is enough. She does not require any video of sexual act for getting orgasm.

In married life, every woman is generally love oriented for enjoying sex.

In order to make love making enjoyable for entire married life, man should opt or insist on only those sexual acts and variations, which she willingly approves.

The demanding husbands usually get frustrations; and wise loving husbands know how to get sexual pleasure from the same woman for entire married life.

Pornography is popular mostly amongst men although some percentage of women also indulge into pornography designed for women.

Single or separated men, not interested in getting entangled with any woman may opt for Pornography as way of recreation.

Married men who have no opportunity to have sex with partner for any reason, may choose Pornography instead of extra-marital sex or sex with a prostitute; as a harmless option to relieve their sexual urge.

Similar reasons could be possible for women to opt pornography, more so when women has excessive sexual urge and has no means to resolve it with any man including her husband.

Children from disturbed families and those with undeveloped social or dating skills opt for pornography and masturbation for temporary stress relief.

Although pornography appears to be harmless tool for recreation, in certain circumstances, continuation of such pleasures for long duration can become addiction and may have harmful consequences when person returns to marital relationship.

Many people think Pornography is harmless fun and that it has no harmful effects.

Although pornography appears to be harmless tool for recreation, in reality, it is impossible not to be affected by Pornography.

Pornography can never enhance sexual quality or efficiency. On the other hand it can hurt the partner badly enough to develop hatred for sex and strain family relationship.

Messages communicated by Pornography shape the attitude and behaviour of a person that can harm sexual relationship as well as family life.

Let’s see how this happens

Initially Pornography provides a harmless tool to relieve a man of his sexual pressure by way of masturbation. This prevents him from finding a partner Or from desperate need for having a partner.

Limiting oneself to this pleasure without creating any dependence is wise man’s advice.

Any dependence on Pornography leads to “Addiction” wherein Pornography acts as the only source of sexual stimulant for having sex; or for sexual release through masturbation.

Further continuation of this addiction leads to “Escalation” wherein person needs more explicit and deviant material to meet the need.

The next phase is of “Desensitization” when the material which was initially unusual and shocking becomes common and acceptable.

The final and most harmful stage is of “Acting out sexually” when person develops a compulsive tendency to act out behaviours and actions viewed in Pornography with wife.

Sexual excitement between the couple must originate naturally from intimate relationship between them even after years of married life.

Some therapists wrongly advice individuals to take help of sexually explicit material to fantasise and get stimulated for having sex with wife.

Dependence on such external source will not only destroy natural attraction between the partners but also gets interpreted as sex without love. This could lead intercourse as act of masturbation or rape.

Pornography can lure a person into extramarital relation, adultery or prostitution.

Pornography is also proven as root cause of most sexual offences.