At the beginning of the relationship, almost all couples are sexually compatible. They enjoy making love all the time. Their sexual needs are more associated with being together and sharing pleasure.
Hence, they both find ways and means to enjoy sex.
However, over time; months or years later, individual’s true sexual natures emerges and evolves
Understanding and managing differences in sexual desires is the one of their main concerns.
Their inability to talk openly about Sex makes the situation even more complex.
Some couples slowly withdraw from each other by touching less, or kissing less passionately
Anger, resentments and Fighting replaces love making.
Some couples think their partner does not like or love anymore, where as the real reason is lack of knowledge of how to handle sexual difference.
With compromises and adjustments they make their busy life a higher priority than loving relationship.
Sexual passion disappears even in most loving relationships unexpectedly, when life becomes too busy to have intimate moments together.
As emotional intimacy reduces, the sexual drive disappears.
Couples begin to feel and live more like roommates rather than lovers.
About 50 to 70 per cent of these couples can help themselves by understanding how to manage their sexual differences and bridge the gap between their desire for sex and busy life.
Other Situations
Although most couples manage to find their way to have sexual intercourse, some couples, if unsuccessful, carry on their married life without having actual sexual intercourse.
Some of these couples do enjoy sexual contacts without intercourse or live together with love and affection at least during early part of their married life.