First time sex, whether it is first ever sexual experience or the first time experience with the new partner, in either case one may expect surprises.

Sexual responses are unique and every person may respond differently towards sex. It is also possible that person may have different experiences even with the same partner.

Therefore, one should not expect the magical moments in first time sex. It is good to remain calm and be able to handle even the most sensitive moments as and when they arise

Both partners may feel nervous and tense because one never knows what the other person would like sexually until the moment actually comes.

You may both be feeling nervous or tense and fighting against the feeling of lust. You cannot judge or predict at this stage exactly what the other person might enjoy sexually.

Ensuring first time sex more enjoyable is possible -

Just go slow and be gentle towards your partner even when you are already aroused and cannot wait any more.

Express care and love in your manners because in first time sex both partners feel insecure, probably for different reasons.

Never get tensed if you fail to initiate or achieve the sexual intercourse in the first encounter.

Failure to initiate sex or achieve sexual intercourse in the first attempt is quite common and could be for various acceptable reasons.

One should never feel guilty for the failures and remember that in marital relation, you get lot of opportunities to compensate.

Such failures can be anticipated and tackled in time if one has taken proper pre-marriage guidance.

If you never had opportunity for such guidance, do not feel shy to meet proper doctor to identify if there is any medical problem and get guidance to enjoy loving relationship in future.

Choose the position that is comfortable for both to achieve intercourse and be supportive to your partner. The missionary position is often the favoured position for couple’s first intercourse.

First time sex is combination of challenges; i.e. performing the act and achieving mutual satisfaction.

You may avoid eye contact if you feel shy. Observe your partner’s responses to find out if your partner is enjoying your actions. There is usually less of direct talking and more of suggestive signalling in the first experience.

In the first experience woman may not have an orgasm and that is fine. That does not mean that she did not enjoy the sex or that the whole event was a failure. But, care must be taken in subsequent sessions that both partners enjoy the sexual act.

Remember to use condom to ensure that both partners protect themselves from an unwanted pregnancy. It is embarrassing to have such problems at the beginning of relationship.

If you have planned to use condom, it is better to practice rolling of condom over erect penis couple of times. This will prevent mind diversion during the most intimate moments.