When a man becomes mature and independent to get married, he plays important role in making of a baby.

An egg is produced in one of the ovaries of a woman each month and remains in the Fallopian tube for 2-3 days. 

During this time, if the sperms produced in a man reach the egg, the fertilization can take place.

Sperms are deposited in the canal leading to a woman’s womb by inserting the erect penis through the special opening in the woman’s groin region called vagina.

To and fro movements of the erect penis into the vagina followed by series of muscular contractions help in ejaculation of semen in spurts from the penis into the space created in the vagina.

Such insertion of an erect penis into the vagina for the purpose of reproduction or for (mutual) pleasure is called a sexual intercourse.

Having an intercourse before marriage or before the prescribed legal age for marriage which is 18 years for girls and 21 for boys, has several medical (health), psychological and legal consequences, hence should be avoided.

Sex is a perfectly normal and natural phenomenon to ensure continuation of species.

Unlike animals, human being is capable of having sex at any time and their sexual responses are controlled by not only thoughts and feelings but also by the rules and customs of the Society.

Procreation that is to produce babies; Recreation that is for fun and Pair-bonding to increase the intimacy in a relation are the common reasons why human beings have sex.

There is no prescribed act of sex. However, insertion of penis into vagina is generally described as sexual intercourse.

Voluntarily accepted sexual act which does not lead to any harm or humiliation of partner may be considered as 'Normal Sex'.

Force or physical violence of any kind is wrong and could be unlawful. It can also lead to physical as well as emotional scar.

Oral sex and Anal sex do not come in the definition of normal sex.

Some people wrongly give advice to have sexual experience before marriage in order to get ‘real experience’ in order to ensure better performance in married life.

Such experience definitely does not guarantee better sexual performance in married life or a successful marriage.

As every person offers a unique challenge, it is better to explore your own partner for mutual satisfaction, than trying to be perfect with the professional and then compare the performance with your partner.

There is a risk of breach of trust and rejection of ‘experienced’ person, because the institution of marriage is based on trust, loyalty and commitment.

Being able to satisfy partner sexually is more important in marriage, than the experience in sexual performance.

Some couples even ‘try-out’ sex before getting married to prove their compliance, which is also wrong and not necessary.

There are even examples of conceiving a baby (getting Pregnant) before marriage to prove fertility, which is also not necessary, hence must be avoided.

Being committed towards each other physically, emotionally and sexually is the foundation of successful marriage. And, this fact is also well accepted by almost all religions and cultures around the world.

Only with lot of patience, perseverance and maturity we learn true means of mutual sexual satisfaction.

Sexual Performance depends on one’s ability to give pleasure and satisfaction to the partner.  And, is not related to size of the penis or breasts.

One does not require to take any training or have any real-life experience with a prostitute to become a competent lover.

Sexual compatibility can be acquired only by one’s own experimentation and tactful handling of difficult situations.

Perfectly understanding partners may enjoy a good sexual relation as inseparable part of their entire healthy married life.

Partner’s sexual needs at any age is a perfectly normal phenomenon and is not limited only to intercourse.

Remarriage at any age is also a perfectly normal requisite for a man as well as woman.  It may not only accomplish emotional companionship but also fulfil one’s sexual needs, not necessarily intercourse.